Pls I need a sincere advice here.
I’m 3 months old in marriage and im so unhappy about the set up (my wife too)
My wife is a student and she tried everything to shift the marriage until easter this year but i refused due to many projects for the year. so we got married 3 months ago.
I took care of her bills since she got admission and we dated for 5 years
But she is so disrespectful and want to make important decisions in marriage which ive refused to allow.
Now, she claims i forced her into marriage and she is not mentally ready because i asked her to change to my family’s name.
She has been good then bad then worse..And i think her words about forcing her into marriage has irreparably hurt me.
I spent over 3m of my cash to give her the wedding she wanted (Without any support from her family) against my wish for a 1m wedding.
And despite getting the big wedding she wants before consenting to marry last year, she claims she is not mentally ready and was forced into marriage.
she has repeated this over and over and its making me go crazy..in fact im tired already
Right now she wants more time to be a wife..but im beginning to feel there is a love issue here..I feel she does not love me as she always claims
Though weve settled but we dont talk as usual..we dont even want to hear from each other…
it seems i nolonger love her like i used to..And worst still, continuing with the marriage when she claims she was forced is degrading and disreputable.
My question is, at what point should anyone seriously consider a divorce?